Just have fun

Today I feel a little bit dismal, maybe because of weather, I went to my office very late, with no strong desire to work, I choose to browse my email, wow, there are 60 something letters I haven't read in my msn box....

There come a tag, I read the title, some outrageous names like sexy mini skirt, or silly sexy what what...with women's butts exposed in the picture, guessing they are pornographical websites, I refrained from watching them  at the first thought, yet I opened one of it with the second thought, haha, I succumbed to the temptation,it turns out funny stuffs. I opened them one by one then, this is one of them. http://video.tagged.com/?ect=c2ddo8a&al=1&tId=140410&fid=DEC41DBA1BE340A2&v=uFQUQkeJjo4

I feel better after reading and watching some funny videos, it is a way to release the fatigue, I always think that human needs a lot of fun, especially in nowadays, there are a lot of intersting options for us to choose, we are allowed to have fun, right? haha,please watch this..http://video.tagged.com/?ect=c2ddo8a&al=1&tId=140410&fid=DEC41DBA1BE340A2&v=sv8ZemoDILo

Yet these days I felt pity for him and began to concern about him, his health, his everything. He's been excellent and versatile, good-hearted, well-disposed, which contributed to his recent promotion, by two steps directly. It surprised him, as well as many, for a stunning post envied by many came to him easily. But he suffered from the wine, meeting, and waste of time, and I , start to worry about his body and health.

I know it's time for me to show my concern to him, it's time for me to work hard to support him, it's time for me to be good to honor him. I know I love him no less than anytime I loved him before,my dear husband.

The list the like is long, this question jolted me once again this morning when I was jogging, series of questions popped up as if I can conjure up inspirations, they are like : why some people can endure hardship, loneliness and even boredom than others under the same circumstance? why some people can resist temptations and lead a polished and noble life? why some people can be consistent in their pursuit without wavering? why some people have perseverance to hold on to their hopes?

The answer is more or less the same, those people can control themselves, they not only have strong will, but also develop good habits, they reinforce their positive attitude often, they reflect and meditate their life often, they are not rigid people though they stick to their tasks like glue sticks to the targeted objects, they can flex their mind's muscles enough when they feel needed, they not only survive but also thrive, they not only talk but also act.