So, this, you know, what I love about this, Operah, this is great. Because what's happening is that we're getting into this, I'm gonna protect my ego, and the reason I'm gonna address this is cause your child's life is on the line. Your child is in trouble. She is in danger. It is not happening outside of your home. It is happening in your home. It is not to blame you. But when I hear parents say, I mean, this is now for everybody, cause part of what I want to talk about on the after show is the question for all of us is "how have we injured our children?". Not "Have we?", "How have we injured them?" It's not the question about if we have because we have. So, to you, and this is not for you to answer right now. Your response was I disagree with you, we have a happy home, it will be our six-year-old, I got all that. What I saying is this three years old who you are getting ready to lose. And so we can neither focus on what's happening and what has she picked up that's making her so focused. You know, magazines then how have we not protected her spirit and her mind. Where did we for sure? And if you can't answer that and all you can do is tell me what a great job you've done. And it’s not just you. This is……

Yeah, Did you know this is a classic thing that happens in the families where, you know, my generation, we call them the black sheep. And you headed for having what we call a black sheep. You have a child at three years old who saying to you it's throwing tensions and saying I hate you, way to that child turn to thirteen or ten, you know what I'm saying, But I just, let me finish. And so the mistake that a lot of people make that I've seen for interviews over the years is, they will say, but I did the same thing with my other children, and my other children are perfect, my other children don't have these things of issue, my other children are wonderful. We did the same thing. Every child needs something different. And you can do the same kind of parenting, the same kind of parenting doesn't work for every, If you have two children, you can not parent them at the same. This I know. Yes or no? It means what you are doing in the house for that one child, and you all know if you come from more than one person in your family, your parents do the same thing as they say, well, how come you act at this way and he act at that way. Isn't that true?