愚者与智者的48个差距 (translation)
48 Differences between the Wise and the Foolish
第一章 学会尊重他人 Chapter One Learn to respect the others
·1．智者满脸微笑，愚者冷若冰霜 The Wise are all smiles; the foolish pull a long face.
·2．智者记住别人的名字，愚者希望名字被记住 The wise remember the others’ name; the foolish want their names to be remembered.
·3．智者了解别人的心思，愚者表示自己的需要 The wise understand the others’ thought; the foolish express their demands.
·4．智者善于倾听，愚者没有耐心 The wise are good listeners; the foolish are impatient speakers.
第二章 不做无意义的争辩 Chapter Two Start no Meaningless Argument
·5．智者先赞同，愚者先否定 The wise agree first; the foolish object first.
·6．智者让别人逐步说“是”，愚者会引起 更多争论 The wise lead the others gradually to say “Yes”; the foolish stir up more controversies.
·7．智者聪慧幽默，愚者呆板无趣 The wise are witty and humourous; the foolish are rigid and boring.
·8．智者知过就改，愚者固执己见 The wise admit and correct their mistakes; the foolish stubbornly stick to the end.
第三章 说话不说破 Chapter Three Don’t be Too Articulate
·9．智者委婉建议，愚者直白否定 The wise offer suggestions indirectly; the foolish oppose directly;
·10．智者不把话说破，愚者单刀直入 The wise give no full explanation; the foolish speak their mind at once.
·11．智者三缄其口，愚者口不择言 The wise talk with great prudence; the foolish speak with whatever comes to mind;
·12．智者委婉拒绝，愚者冷漠反对 The wise politely refuse; the foolish bluntly turn it down
第四章 学会随机应变 Chapter Four Learn to Play to the Score
·13．智者说话看对象，愚者盲目乱开口 The wise speak with consideration of their audience; the foolish talk aimlessly and carelessly.
·14．智者善于察言观色，愚者不会“投其所好” The wise are good at observing the other’s words and deeds; the foolish don’t know how to cater to the others’ pleasure;
·15．智者看场合，愚者“一根筋” The wise consider the situation; the foolish simply have their way.
·16．智者谈对方感兴趣的事，愚者说自己 感兴趣的事 The wise discuss what interests the others; the foolish focus on what interests themselves.
第五章 做个让人喜欢的人 Chapter Five Be a Pleasing Person
·17．智者低调谦虚，愚者骄傲张狂 The wise are modest and keep a low profile; the foolish are arrogant and aggressive.
·18．智者宽容大度，愚者锱铢必较 The wise are generous and easy; the foolish haggle over very penny.
·19．智者诚实可信，愚者虚伪可憎 The wise are honest and trustworthy; the foolish are hypocritical and hateful
·20．智者照顾他人的自重感，愚者满足自己的虚荣心 The wise pay attention to the others’ dignity; the foolish are content with their vanity.
第六章 关心他人 快乐自己 Chapter Six Care the Others and Happify Oneself
·21．智者细微处关心他人，愚者处处为自己打算 The wise care the others to the detail; the foolish calculate their own benefit all the time
·22．智者善意赞美，愚者乐于批评 The wise praise kindly; the foolish are fond of tongue-lashing.
·23．智者给人以激励，愚者以冷水泼人 The wise are encouraging; the foolish are discouraging.
·24．智者善于替人解围，愚者遇事避而远之 The wise tend to help the others out of awkward situation; the foolish shun those in need.
第七章 高效率做事 Chapter Seven Work with Efficiency
·25．智者目标明确，愚者糊涂度日 The wise have a clear aim; the foolish kill time every day.
·26．智者善于制订计划，愚者眉毛胡子一把抓 The wise are good at working out their schedule; the foolish simply go about several tasks at a time.
·27．智者与人有效合作，愚者喜欢单打独斗 The wise wish for a good cooperation; the foolish like going rogue
·28．智者挖掘自身潜能，愚者只会埋头苦干The wise tap their potential; the foolish only work like a horse.
第八章 行动成就梦想 Chapter Eight Realize the Dream with Action
·29．智者付诸行动，愚者耽于幻想 The wise take actions; the foolish indulge in illusions.
·30．智者雷厉风行，愚者拖沓懒惰 The wise carry out their tasks resolutely; the foolish are lazy and laggard.
·31．智者标新立异，愚者盲目从众 The wise march to a different drummer; the foolish simply follow the crowd blindly.
·32．智者未雨绸缪，愚者亡羊补牢 The wise plan ahead; the foolish mend their fence after the intrusion.
第九章 不钻生活牛角尖 Chapter Nine Don’t Go to Extremes
·33．智者淡然看待得失，愚者为名为利所累 The wise calmly handle the gains and losses; the foolish are preoccupied with seeking fame and fortune.
·34．智者懂得放弃，愚者牢记忧伤 The wise know what to give up; the foolish are always laden with grief.
·35．智者改善自己的弱点，愚者埋怨自己的短处 The wise correct their shortcomings; the foolish complain about their weaknesses.
·36．智者知道变通，愚者死钻牛角 The wise learn to be flexible; the foolish attempt the impossible.
第十章 信心是照亮成功的阳光 Chapter Ten Confidence Lights up the Road to Success
·37．智者不为打翻的牛奶哭泣，愚者常常 拿过失处罚自己 The wise don’t cry over the spilt milk; the foolish often punish themselves for their fault.
·38．智者克服自卑，愚者被自卑俘虏 The wise overcome self-abasement; the foolish are prisoners of inferiority
·39．智者对生活充满热忱，愚者缺乏激情 The wise live a zealous life; the foolish lack of passion.
·40．智者为最坏的结果做准备，愚者凡事 总往最坏处设想The wise prepare for the worst result; the foolish always imagine the worst whatever they face;
第十一章 别和工作过不去 Chapter Eleven Don’t be Too Silly with Work
·41．智者创造机遇，愚者等待好运 The wise create their opportunity; the foolish wait for their chance.
·42．智者靠智慧工作，愚者靠体力工作 The wise work with their mind; the foolish depend on their body.
·43．智者热爱自己的工作，愚者在工作中 变得麻木 The wise love their job; the foolish become numb and dull in it.
·44．智者懂得休息，愚者堪称工作狂 The wise know when to rest; the foolish are mere workaholics.
第十二章 享受生活，享受快乐 Chapter Twelve Enjoy Life, Have Fun
·45．智者给心灵放假，愚者让心弦紧绷 The wise set soul free with a day or two; the foolish keep themselves nervous and tense
·46．智者驾驭金钱，愚者被金钱束缚 The wise are the master of their fortune; the foolish are the slave of their money.
·47．智者过好每一天，愚者浪费好时光 The wise live each day happily; the foolish waste it fruitlessly.
·48．智者感受快乐点滴，愚者总是不快乐The wise feel every bit of pleasure; the foolish are always a worrywart.
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