我又来写博客了，那是因为不知道你还要哭到什么时候……

哭吧，哭吧，哭过了什么都会好的。

不用抱怨曾经付出没有回报。世上本没有太多公平的事情，是否安心，是否平静，取决于你对自己要求有多少。何必要那么累，把自己的负罪和委屈建立在别人的不忠所带来的痛苦上。不要抱怨，不要强求，爱就爱了，爱过了就爱过了。疼，放在心里就好了，不甘心？那就让爱死在心里，烂在心里。时间会改变一切，变迁会造就一切。何必情绪化的悲伤，影响本来正常的生活。

是的，期望太高，失望太大。不值，你觉得一切都那么的不值。不值那又怎么样？姑且当作做一比赔本的买卖吧，可是并没有破产啊。相反，你全心全意的爱过了，这就是财富。一生有过一次刻骨铭心彻彻底底的爱过就够了。不是我故意安慰你，说什么过程比结果重要。当你看不到前方是什么路时，为何不好好享受正走着的路呢。阳光大道激昂洋溢，阴雨小路别有一番情趣，开不开心全在自己。前方大道或是辟径，尽管来，到了眼前也不怵你。

你常常笑得那么开心，泣不成声的不应该是你。我知道你真的伤了，无奈或是放弃，也许你真的累了。当你真的哭了的时候，我想你心里也许做好了决定。那么就痛痛快快的哭吧，哭过之后面对依然光明的生活，按着理想走下去。要知道，人能下决心是一件多么了不起的事情，无论你做什么决定，我都会默默的支持你！

总会有那么一段日子会那么难熬，我知道你是不撞墙绝不回头的，那么你要挺过来！还有一句很俗的话，你只不过失去了一个你已经不爱的人，解脱了，就应该庆幸！

生活在继续，不会为谁停留。闭上眼睛，仿佛站在时间机器里，身边的一切倒退的如闪电般的幻影。我们来不及强求，来不及后悔，来不及悲伤，来不及退缩……

只能，勇敢的前行！



Be strong
          ——delta goodrem

are you swimming upstream in oceans of blue?
do you feel like your sinking?
are you sick of the rain after all you've been through?
well i know what you're thinking
when you can't take it
you can make it
sometime soon i know you'll see

'cause when your in you're darkest hour
and all of the light just fades away
when you're like a single flower
whose colours have turned to shades of gray
well hang on and be strong

where taking each step one day at a time
you can't loose your spirit
let live and let live forget and forgive
it's all how you see it
and just remember keep it together
don't you know you're never alone

'cause when you're in your darkest hour
and all of the light just fades away
when you're like a single flower
whose colours have turned to shades of gray
well hang on, and be strong

no you're not defeated
and soon you'll be smiling once again
then you won't have to feel it
let it go with the wind
time passes us by
and know that you're aloud to cry

'cause when you're in your darkest hour
and all of the light just fades away
when you're like a single flower
whose colours have turned to shades of gray
well hang on and be strong

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希望你能看见，看不见也要感觉到。一切都会好起来的，不过是成长，挣扎一下也无妨！