人生就是为了找寻爱的过程，每个人的人生都要找到四个人。第一个是自己，第二个是你最爱的人，第三个是最爱你的人，第四个是共度一生的人。
首先会遇到你最爱的人，然后体会到爱的感觉，因为了解被爱的感觉，所以才能发现最爱你的人。当你经历过爱人与被爱，学会了爱，才会知道什麽是你最需要的，也才会找到最适合你、能够相处一辈子的人。但悲哀的是，在现实生活中，这三个人通常不是同一个人；你最爱的，往往没有选择你；最爱你的，往往不是你最爱的；而最长久的，偏偏不是你最爱也不是最爱你的，只是在最合适的时间出现的那个人。你，会是别人生命中的第几个人呢？没有人是故意要变心的，他爱你的时候是真的爱你，可是他不爱你的时候也是真的不爱你了，他爱你的时候没有办法假装不爱你；同样地，他不爱你的时候也没有办法假装爱你。当一个人不爱你要离开你，你要问自己还爱不爱他，如果你也不爱他了，千万别为了可怜的自尊而不肯离开。如果你还爱他，你应该会希望他过得幸福快乐，希望他跟真正爱的人在一起，绝不会阻止，你要是阻止他得到真正的幸福, 就表示你已经不爱他了。
而如果你不爱他，你又有什麽资格指责他变心呢？爱不是占有，你喜欢月亮，不可能把月亮拿下来放在脸盆里，但月亮的光芒仍可照进你的房间。换句话说，你爱一个人，也可以用另一种方式拥有，让爱人成为生命力的永恒回忆。如果你真爱一个人，就要爱他原来的样子，爱他的好，也爱他的坏，爱他的优点，也爱他的缺点，绝不能因为爱他，就希望他变成自己所希望的样子，万一变不成就不爱他了。真正爱一个人是无法说出原因的，你只知道无论何时何地、心情好坏，你都希望这个人陪着你；真正的感情是两个人能在最艰苦中相守，也就是没有丝毫要求。毕竟，感情必须付出，而不是只想获得。分开是一种必然的考验，如果你们感情不够巩固，只好认输，真爱是不会变成怨恨的。
两人在谈情说爱的时候，最喜欢叫对方发誓，许下承诺。我们为什麽要对方发誓，就是因为我们不相信对方，我们根本不相信情人，而这些山盟海誓又很不切实际：海枯石烂、地老天荒，都不能改变我对你的爱！明知道海不会枯、石不会烂、地不会老、天不会荒；就算会，也活不到那时候。许下诺言的时候千万注意，不要许下可以实现的诺言，最好是承诺作不到的事，反正作不到的，随便说说也不要紧，请记住：“不可能实现的诺言最动人。”在爱情里，说的是一套，做的是另一套，讲的人不相信，听的人也不相信。
你呢？找到了第几个?茫茫人海中，你遇见了谁？谁又遇见了你？
The four people you will meet in your life
Every body, in the journey of his or her life, will meet four people
The first one is yourself
The second the one you love most
The third the one who loves you most
The last is the one with whom you will walk togther in the journey of life
Firstly, you will meet the one you love most and experience the feeling of true love
For you have known the feeling the of being loved, you can find who loves you most
After you experiened loving and being loved and know what is love, then you get to know what is your need
And then you can find the one who matches you and can live peaceful with you all through your life
However, what is sad is that in the realistic life the three are usually not the same one
the most loved always do not love you
The one who loves you most is always not loved by you
And the last one, with you always in your life, is not the most loved and not the one who loves you most
It is only the one who appears at the most appropriate time
She or he does not intend to be disloyal
When he or she loves you, it is true
When he dose not love you, it is also true
When he loves you, he can not prtend to love you
Meanwhile, when he does not love you, he cannot pretend not to love you
When one begins not loving you and leaves you, you ask yourself wheather you love him at all
When you begin not loving him, do never stay with him just for your self-respect
If you love him, you should and will hope he may have a good and happy life
You hope he can be with whom he loves and will never stand in the way
If you do, this means that you donot love him already
And if you do not love him, then why should you blame him being disloyal
Love is not to take up
You may love the moon, but it is impossibe to put it into your basin; however the moonlight can come into your room
In another words, love can be got in another way and you should store the loved as the forever memmory in your life
If you really love one, you should love him as what he is
Love his good, love his bad, love his merit and love his dismerit
You should never hope he becomes what you like just because you love him and donot love him in case he cannot change
You cannot tell the reaaon why you love one if you really do
You only know that wherever you are, happy or sad, you want him to be with you
You two can keep the love in the worst living condition and demand nothing
After all, love needs dedication but not just gaining
To part is an inevitabale test
If the love between you is not steady, you have to give up,
When in love river, each likes other to make an oath
Why should you? ‘cause you donot trust each other
“Seas may run dry, rocks turn to dust, may but my ove to you will never be changed”
We all know seas will never run dry, rocks never crumble
Eventhough they will, we cannot live so long
Unrrealistic as these oath words are, they are most touching
Because true love is never to turn into a grudge