Campus love isn't a newly-born phenomenon. Some people are strongly against it while some others think it's natural. I don't advocate it. The reasons are as follows. First of all, undergraduates are neither fully psychologically mature nor able to assume the responsibility, especially freshmen and sophomores. Second, they may indulge in it, thus dilapidate their study, which isn't rare. Third, some just take advantage of it to kill time, avoid boredom with much time at their own disposals, have someone keep company, etc. What's more, some change dating "partners" frequently, holding a paradox opinion that they could show off their charm or accumulate experience, but more often than not, they would leave a bad impression, such as lacking the sense of responsibility, on others, especially their former sweethearts. Last, the proportion of successful couples is too low. The overwhelming majority reach the same end-parting just before graduation, forced by reality, etc.
So, look before you leap, discard campus love and make a wiser decision after graduation.
校园爱情之我见
校园爱情不是一个新生的现象。有些人是强烈反对,而有的人认为这是自然的事情。我不主张,理由如下。首先,大学生,特别是大一、大二学生,心理尚未充分成熟,也没有能力承担责任。其次,他们会沉迷其中以致荒废了学习,这是不罕见。再者,因为有许多时间可供支配,有些人便利用它来消磨时间,打发无聊,找人做伴等。更甚者是,一些人经常变换约会的“对象”,并持谬论认为,这样可以展示自己魅力、积累经验,然而很多时候,他们会给人留下坏印象,如缺乏责任感,特别是对他们的前任情人。最后,成功结成夫妇的比例太低了。绝大多数面临着同一个结果——迫于现实在毕业前分手等等。
所以,(我们)要三思而后行,放弃校园爱情,在毕业后做出更明智的决定。
posted on 2008-03-03 22:24
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