随笔 - 263 文章 - 203 评论 - 1908

鼓励的魅力

早上我去上班的时候,老公会说:多漂亮啊. 晚上回家的时候,老公会说: 我们的大美人回来了.

我的瑞典同事总是会对NEW COMER做的工作说" very good" " good job"

最近看了when a man loves a woman, 里面的男女主角总是对他们的两个年幼的女儿说:beautiful girl, my beautiful girl. 还有男主角对虽然有酗酒的女主角的赞美: your mother is best at everything...... 说她有几百种笑容,每一种笑容都让人有不同的感受.

这些慷慨的赞美和鼓励让我感动.我希望这个世界,每个家庭都多一些赞美和鼓励,少一些打击和不满.当一个人得到肯定,他或者她不仅会更加努力,而且会树立起百折不挠的自信心,而自信心是每个人生命中最重要的生命之源. 得到否定,并不是说所有的人都不会努力,但即使努力的人,内心仍会不时被自卑,担心,痛苦,种种消极的阴影笼罩.

愿赞美之神永驻在你我心间!

When a man loves a woman
Can't keep his mind on nothing else
He'll trade the world
For the good thing he's found
If she's bad he can't see it
She can do no wrong
Turn his back on his best friend
If he put her down

When a man loves a woman
Spend his very last dime
Tryin' to hold on to what he needs
He'd give up all his comfort
Sleep out in the rain
If she said that's the way it ought to be

Well, this man loves a woman
I gave you everything I had
Tryin' to hold on to your precious love
Baby, please don't treat me bad

When a man loves a woman
Down deep in his soul
She can bring him such misery
If she plays him for a fool
He's the last one to know
Lovin' eyes can't ever see

When a man loves a woman
He can do no wrong
He can never own some other girl
Yes when a man loves a woman
I know exactly how he feels
'Cause baby, baby, baby, you're my world

When a man loves a woman.....