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Love is Patient; love is kind; love is not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoice in the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
Love never ends. ( Corinthains 13:4-8)
爱是恒久忍耐，又有慈恩；爱是不嫉妒，爱是不自夸，不张狂，不作害羞的事，不求自己的益处，不轻易发怒，不计算人的恶，不喜欢不义，只喜欢真理；凡事包容，凡事相信，凡事盼望，凡事忍耐。
爱是永不止息。 (哥多林前书 13:4-8)
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It's true that we come across different new people every day, some are just been met for minutes and disappear in your life for long; some you may have the opportunity to become closer in whichever connections with work and life, and stays for just certain period or longer; some are more about the selection has been made before you come,typically it's your parents and some surroundings during the way.
Smile to everybody you met with the gratitude from your heart, even though he/she might not in the style you like. It's a good feeling to treat everything happened in life as the gift , because sooner or later, it enriches the life experience and shapes you!
It reminds me the impressive speech made by Pudong Toastmaster Lilian “ smile and keep on smile”^_^ Hei, note to express it in a proper way, although you may encounter some “cool” feedback from the receivers, it does not cost you much and I believe it's a good way of treating people. Try to think it from the other way saying you are the person being facing?
Below wordings from broadcasting is exactly what I am trying to convey :-)
王小选：我有一个信念，我认为生活的一切都是你人生当中的一份礼物，包括我今天能和你相见交流。这都是一个缘分，就是说我今天能够跟你认识，哪怕擦肩而过，或者是坐下来谈一段话，共享一段时间，这都是人生的一份礼物，你要珍视它。所以我比较珍视周围的这一切，哪怕这个人很不好，别人都很讨厌他，但是我想人总有他好的地方。 另外，生活当中的失败对我来说也是一份收获，哪怕是碰到一个敌人，他对我很不友好，那我也认为这是生活给我的一份礼物，因为我学到了世界上还有这么一个人，我知道了怎样去对付他，他给了我一个成长的平台，所以要去享受人生的每时每刻。到了异地，一切生疏，举目无亲，语言也差，但是我享受每一天，享受我过去所没有的东西，交识了很多朋友，生活得很愉快，没有什么不舒服的地方，大概是我的人生观使我能够很快地进入状态。
王小选：人生充满了挑战，人的一生是很短暂的。我的经验就是你要把每一天、每一个困难当作挑战你潜力的一个机会，伸开双臂去欢迎它、拥抱它。充分享受挑战、搏斗中的艰难和胜利，享受一切。这样你的人生就是充满欢乐、充满幸福感的。 （2006年1月12日《财富人生》播出 录音整理：洪苏）
http://www.cnr.cn/fortune/guest/200601/t20060127_504160982.html
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不要为明天忧虑，因为明天自有明天的忧虑; 一天的难处一天当就够了。 （马太 6：14）
Do not worry about the tomorrow, for tomorrow will bring worries of its own. Today's trouble is enough for today. (Matthew 6:34)
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Maybe God wanted us to meet the wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift.
Maybe when the door of happiness closes, another opens, but oftentimes we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one, which has been opened for us.
Maybe the best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you have ever had.
Maybe it is true that we do not know what we have got until we lose it, but it is also true that we do not know what we have been missing until it arrives. Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they will love you back. Do not expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart; but if it does not, be content it grew in yours.
It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.
Do not go for looks; they can deceive. Do not go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile. There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real.
Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.
May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, enough hope to make you happy. Always put yourself in others shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the other person, too.
The happiest of people do not necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched, and those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives.
Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss and ends with a tear. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past. You cannot go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.
When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you are the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.
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